In this episode, Dana is joined by Clay Moffat, an ex-Navy weapons tech turned behavioral coach and author of The Trust Trap. Clay offers a radical reframe on trust, arguing it isn’t a character trait but a dynamic process of alignment that requires constant evaluation. He reveals why we are the “authors of our own pain” and how we unknowingly fall into the “trust trap” by creating a frozen mental image of others and ignoring real-time data. Clay breaks down the psychology of betrayal, arguing that the most significant betrayals are often the ones we commit against ourselves by ignoring our intuition.
The Science Behind Trust and Self-Betrayal
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